The First Time: How to use a butt plug
Butt plugs come in various shapes and sizes, but generally they all follow a similar pattern; A teardrop or “bulb” shape, a “neck” and a flared base. Most caps are round and narrow at the tip of the bulb, while progressively sizing progressively until reaching their widest point. Below the widest point, the plug begins to narrow and is then followed by the “neck”, which is the thinnest point and also where the anal sphincter will hug the plug after full insertion. The base of the butt plug is generally round (similar to the base of a dildo) or a narrow-flared base.
Regardless of your gender / sexuality identity, as long as you have a butt, plugs can be completely nice. “It just isn’t true. Wearing a butt plug can make all kinds of sex feel more pleasurable for women. “Sure, men and people with penises have their own little G-spot (the prostate) that can be stimulated through anal play and fingering. But it can still feel really good for everyone else too.
In case you didn’t know, the peach doesn’t self-lubricate. That means you must use a personal lubricant when inserting a back plug. Experts often recommend a silicone-based lubricant because it lasts longer than the water-based type. (Also, it won’t wash in the shower, something that fans of sex in the shower will be delighted with.) The only downside to silicone lubricant is that you shouldn’t use one with a silicone stopper. Over time, it will cause the toy to break down.
Since we are already on the subject of lubricant, you may be wondering when and how to apply it. Dr. Goldstein suggests covering the butt plug first and then putting a tablespoon of lubricant on the anus. Gently press the plug against your anal opening for a few seconds, consciously relaxing your muscles. Then pull the cap back and lubricate it again, and insert it back to the pressure point.
Flared-based sex toys, like butt plugs, create a “feeling of fullness” or pressure, without the back and forth movement offered by dildos. Not only that, but when the pelvic muscles contract during orgasm, a plug can intensify the sensation by giving your body something to squeeze. If you have a prostate, plugs can stimulate it, and if you have a vagina, it can create incredibly pleasurable pressure on the posterior vaginal wall.
Wearing a butt plug during sex or masturbation may take a little getting used to. You can feel amazing in one position and appear less comfortable in another because different muscles work. They are all a little different. Experiment to find the angle or position that works best for you. Remember: if the rear plug doesn’t feel good, replace it. Try a different angle of your hips or move in a different way.
Some women like to use them during sex so their partner can feel the vibration in their penis. Many men say that plugs feel amazing in the prostate, especially during sex since the toy will massage that tender spot with every push. Vibrating anal plugs are often used by couples during sex for increased sexual pleasure.
You can also use butt plugs at work, during a romantic dinner or a walk in the park. Some people like it because it feels very naughty, especially when they give the remote control to their partner. If you use a back plug in public, be sure to bring a plastic bag in case you need to go into the bathroom and take it out. You will need to place it somewhere other than directly in your pocket or purse.